Depending on how stubborn you are, reality often shows you the pattern or way go move your life.
On your way making a good life for you and your surroundings, then remember that what is perfect? Do you really want everybody to see a perfect you, meaning that you perhaps don´t dare to life life because you are afraid of making mistakes, so others will laugh or dislike you? You have to love yourself that much, that you dare to do all the things that you like, making many mistakes on your way, so you can be wise on life, learning, reflecting and knowing what life is really about and finding the substance in life and YOU.
Love, mistakes and wisdom