Learning and development, Psychology

Here Is Why You Are Not An Alpha Male

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The changing world presents a continuing opportunity for an alpha male. Where other guys see change as crisis, an alpha male is in his natural element. He continually observes cause and effect, and turns every opportunity to the advantage of his pack. He loves to win, and is good at it.

He is unconcerned with his image — he just goes about winning the game at hand, whatever it may be, and others follow. They copy his style, speech and look. An alpha male never copies anyone else.

Often laid-back until there is a need for action, an alpha male is fearless in a necessary fight. And he is the best leader of men there is.

But there are some things an alpha male never does. This is a list of the 10 dead-certain giveaways that you are not an alpha male.

10. You Get Her To Pay For Dinner

An alpha male never takes advantage of other people and their kindness. He works hard to provide for himself, and doesn’t feel comfortable being in other people’s debt. If his date tries to contribute, his first instinct is to calmly take the check and say, “Let me get this.” According to recent research, 77 percent of people in straight relationships still that on a first date, it’s the man who should pick up the tab.

9. You Never Apologize, Even When You’re Wrong

An alpha male has no hang-ups. He simply says, “I was wrong. I apologize.” And then he sets out to rectify the problem as best he can using the means available to him.

8. You Suck Up To Leaders And Seek Their Approval

An alpha male doesn’t suck up to anyone. In most situations, he is the leader. And when he isn’t, he’s respectful, but not afraid to speak his mind if the situation calls for it. He gets ahead through effort and hard work, not through buttering up to the right people.

7. You Gossip

About your boss. About your buddies. About your girlfriend. You don’t mind pointing out other people’s failings and weaknesses and having a good laugh at their expense. An alpha male never betrays his pack, but he doesn’t feel the need to belittle others either. He doesn’t need to build himself up by tearing people down.

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6. You Panic In A Crisis

An alpha male’s natural element is change. Rapid change is simply an interesting challenge to him. He goes into a special kind of ice-cold, almost detached state, quickly sums up the situation, does due diligence if time allows for it, and acts immediately and decisively based on prior experience. His heart rate might increase a little bit, but he isn’t scared.

5. You Act Before You Think

An alpha male may act with lightning speed, but he always thinks before he does so. He never runs to the corner and goes off in all directions; he knows that well-considered actions are the ones that bring positive results, not knee-jerk reactions.

4. You Blame Others

An alpha male takes responsibility for his own actions. He doesn’t seek out excuses to make himself seem less culpable; he knows that his hard work and persistence will eventually turn the tide in his favor, so he doesn’t sweat owning up to his mistakes.

3. You Lie

To your boss. To your buddies. To your girlfriend. An Alpha Male isn’t a liar. He’s a stand-up guy; he shoots straight. He doesn’t have to slither out of a mess he got himself into. He does what’s right, and lets the chips fall where they may.

2. You Betray Others To Get Ahead

An alpha male never betrays a member of his pack, and he doesn’t stab his coworkers or acquaintances in the back either. By conducting himself in a gentlemanly manner, he gets the respect he deserves — and that pays off much more than whatever benefits he would get from throwing others under the bus.

1. You Bully People

An alpha male isn’t afraid to take on a real fight when it’s necessary — and only if it is necessary, since alphas aren’t “scrappers” — but he won’t think twice about taking on someone far bigger/stronger/better-situated than he is if the matter being decided is serious. Due to his fierce drive, chances are good that he’ll win — and if he doesn’t, you can bet he won’t blame anyone else.

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Now all this is coming to an end. You have startet your practice to become More Alpha Male. It might take some time, but you are on your way to become a true Alpha Male.

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Love, Health And Wisdom

Brian

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