Rules of a Gentleman
The Age of the Gentleman ? that semi-imaginary time we all have in our heads where men you actually wanted to sleep with wore fedoras and treated ladies like ladies ? might be over, but there?s no reason it can?t come back again. I certainly should. We just need to set up a few ground rules for being a modern Cary Grant/Paul Newman/Ken Cosgrove. We?ll all be drinking scotch and wearing linen suits again in no time.
Being a gentleman is more about than just acts of chivalry. The truth is, it?s about dealing directly with man?s greatest burden, his unfilled potential.
If you become obsessed with being the most courteous man in the world, you?ll end up in one place:
A life of quiet desperation.
The reality is, you need a war plan that?s ethical, moral and honest. For most, accepting the truth isn?t easy.
A great deal of the rules for being a gentleman in today?s times are written for the weak minded males.
Any man of decent character already knows how to treat a woman and the simplest rules of common courtesy. These choices all come to us naturally. A gentleman doesn?t need a reminder to do the right thing; he walks tall, sure of both his words and actions.
While every male is born a man, being a successful gentleman is not for everyone.
Regardless of whether you are picking up a man or a woman, you do so with tact, confidence and humility. You do not treat people as commodity to be conquered, but as souls to be loved.
Some girls like them bad, some like them nerdy. However, there is one breed of a man that will forever have a soft spot in the hearts of ladies: the gentleman. True gentlemen, as some ladies lament, are a dying breed. While it was once the gold standard of being a true man, the art of being a gentleman is slowly fading from the modern guy?s consciousness. Finding a real man, then, is a rare treat.
Now, before you go out and ride on a thoroughbred stallion like some period drama character, the ways of a true gentleman actually differ from what Hollywood tropes suggest. Nope, you don?t need to dress like a dandy and sport a phony British accent, like you came straight from a Jane Austen novel. Being a gentleman is something you must strive for and should not be treated like an act, where you can go on and off character.
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